Normalizing Adviser
Matchmaker
(IEE-N)
Subtype Description
The type who engages in matching or consulting couples to form strong relationships. They select people who are well-suited to each other and advise them that they are a good match based on certain criteria. They excel at introducing people, sensing that they are compatible, and considering psychological compatibility.Prefers to interact with like-minded people, carefully selecting individuals based on their abilities. Skilled at fostering cohesion in small groups or medium-sized teams. Maintains an orderly appearance, home, and workspace. Values well-thought-out theories and systems, and appreciates information presented in a clear and memorable way. Forgiving of human weaknesses. Over time, they let go of grievances. Skilled at articulating unspoken issues between people, phrasing them in a tactful manner. Offers small services as a way of making connections and engaging in communication.Prototype: Dating services, specialist personnel selector
Normalizing Adviser prefers contact with like-minded people and meticulously selects associates according to their abilities. He gradually creates a small circle of people based on common interests and shared values.
He is able to work on consolidating small groups into medium sized teams, which consist of several smaller ones. He possesses a sense of the distance between people in relationships, which is seen as the attraction or repulsion between people.
Initially he is inclined to idealize people and relationships and exaggerate their merits or flaws; however, over time, he begins to realize that it is not necessary to drift away from reality and corrects himself. Black and white judgements are replaced by numerous shades of grey. Normalizing Adviser may excel in psychotherapy and family counseling where the main objective is the right attitude towards people, taking into account individual characteristics.
This subtype is a relatively well-mannered person. He strives to be wellmannered constantly in his looks, as well as orderly in his home and workplace. He's good at referencing well-constructed theories and systems, valuing information presented in a clear and memorable way. If this isn't the case, then he builds such systems himself. However, it turns out quite clumsy and overloaded with unnecessary elements.
He overlooks human weaknesses. He is able to voice appropriately the unspoken wants people may have. When communicating with someone close to him, he works on building motivation and ways of strengthening interpersonal relationships. If he is with someone highly experienced, even if it is an outsider, he is able to respectfully integrate them.
He loves and knows how to make gifts and surprises for loved ones. This is his way of expressing love and his means of strengthening relationships. He finds many other everyday ways and tricks to support his favored network of relationships, be it at home or in a group, which he considers his own.
DCNH Spectra
Chaos ↔ Order Spectrum
Initial
Terminal
Fight ↔ Flight Spectrum
Contact
Distant